The Relational Audit
Evaluate- Where am I upside down?
- Why am I upside down?
- What is it costing me?
- What needs to change?
The Relational Equity Audit, a clear diagnosis of the three relationships costing you the most.


For everyone who joined me at the masterclass.
Six weeks with me to evaluate every important relationship in your life, place each person where they belong, and manage the changes with wisdom and grace. You'll leave with a personalized relational strategy and the tools to keep it going.
This is for you if you give a lot and feel drained by people you love, you're ready to look honestly at your own part, and you're willing to have the conversations and do the assignments. By Week 6, you have a written plan for your own relationships.
The Academy follows the three steps you learned at the masterclass: Evaluate, Place and Manage. Each week has a prerecorded training, a live coaching call and a practical assignment, so by Week 6 you have a written plan for your own relationships.
The Relational Equity Audit, a clear diagnosis of the three relationships costing you the most.

Your Relational Placement Map, with every important person classified and placed.

Your Relational Repositioning Plan for the one or two relationships that need it most.

Your Difficult Conversation Blueprint for the conversation you've been avoiding.

Your Burdens and Boundaries Plan: what you'll stop carrying, the boundaries you'll set and how you'll keep them.

Your Relational Management Plan, a responsible strategy for the conversations, boundaries and decisions ahead.

Enrollment closes November 16 at 11:59 AM ET
Yes, I'm Ready to Join
Each week you get a prerecorded training to watch on your own time, plus a live coaching call to work through what you're facing. Every call is recorded, so if you can't make one live, you can watch the replay.
A relational coach designed around what I teach, available whenever you need it.


When You Join The Relational Intelligence Academy Today, You Also Get These

Your relational coach for the moments between lessons: hard situations, important conversations and the boundaries you need.

A digital assessment of the health of your relationships, the patterns behind them, the hidden costs, and where you're upside down.

Ready-to-use scripts and templates for confronting unhealthy behavior, communicating boundaries, reducing access and saying what you need.

A step-by-step process for deciding whether a relationship needs to be repaired, repositioned, restricted or ended.

A guided 30-day action plan to keep practicing new habits and boundaries after the six weeks end.

Worksheets, templates and exercises to find where boundaries are needed, set them and keep them without unnecessary guilt.

Real-world scenarios across family, friends, associates, assignments and advisors, worked through with Evaluate, Place and Manage.

A focused training on people-pleasing, misplaced loyalty, guilt and fear of confrontation.

A virtual group coaching session with me: teaching, case studies and answers to selected member questions.

A prerecorded masterclass on the emotional triggers that sabotage good relational decisions, available on demand.
Buy now, pay later options are available at checkout, like [OPTIONS]. Approval is up to the provider.
Yes, I'm Ready to JoinIt also isn't the right fit if you're in danger right now or need therapy or treatment for a mental health condition. Please use the resources at the bottom of this page first.
All sales are final. We only want people who are committed to doing the work. Everyone who joins is committing to six weeks of real work, so please only join if you're ready.
[REASON FOR THE DEADLINE]. When enrollment closes, the doors stay closed until the next group.
November 17.
Every call is recorded, so you can watch the replay anytime.
[TIME PER WEEK].
The book covers four types of relationships and how to discern them. The Academy adds family, the five placements and the whole Manage step: the conversation, the boundary and the hard decision.
No. It covers family, friends, coworkers, ministry and romantic relationships.
No. It's coaching and education built on my teaching, and it doesn't replace therapy, counseling or medical care.
Pay $997 in full, choose 2 payments of $597, or use a buy now, pay later option at checkout.
All sales are final.
This is for you if you give a lot and feel drained by people you love, you're ready to look honestly at your own part, and you're willing to have the conversations and do the assignments. By Week 6, you have a written plan for your own relationships.